are we ok?

They say distance makes the heart fonder,does it?...the further you are away from your partner all kinds of thoughts start literally jumping into your head..the what if's and what not's..even if you are next to each other this thoughts still gets to you..fights followed by drama are happening which later on the cause of the fight was not known by either the male or the female.is this fights part of getting to know each other better or does this show that both of them are not compatible for each other..